August 17, 2009
Dealing With a Parent Who Has Alzheimer’s Disease
Beverly Cialone asked:
For most of us, from the moment we were born, our parents were there to take care of us, to comfort us, to provide us with our most basic needs. When we get older, though, that role is usually reversed, and the child becomes the caregiver of the parents. This task can be especially daunting if one or both parents suffers from Alzheimer's.
Alzheimer's disease, which has long been referred to as "Old Timer's Disease", can begin as early as middle age, which is usually regarded as the 40's and beyond. Some people feel that forgetfulness, or senility, is just a part of aging, and in some regards this is true. Our brain capacity diminishes as we get older, just as other body parts begin to slow down and/or break down over time. Our brains actually begin to shrink with age. But these factors alone do not mean Alzheimer's is something everyone will face. Some people remain lively and active and retain a majority of their mental clarity well into their 80's, 90's, and even beyond. Many things are believed to contribute to the onset of Alzheimer's--heredity, using aluminum cookware, or even just the simple process of aging. Out of all these causes, heredity seems to be the number one determining factor. If any of your grandparents suffered from the disease, chances are one or both of your parents will as well.
The onset of Alzheimer's is usually slow, progressing over a number of years. It can start with simple forgetfulness. This isn't to say that a few episodes of forgetfulness means you or your parents have Alzheimer's. Only if the forgetfulness gets progressively worse should you take appropriate steps to get an accurate diagnosis. Serious symptoms can include going for a drive and then forgetting where you're going, or even forgetting how you got to your destination, constant repetition of stories, and at its very worst, forgetting who you are or not recognizing your own family members. At this point, the Alzheimer's patient needs constant supervision, especially when it comes to medication. Taking the same meds twice or even forgetting to take meds poses serious health risks for the Alzheimer's patient. Driving privileges often need to be restricted or even taken away completely in order to protect the Alzheimer's patient. While constant repetition of stories can be aggravating for the listener, try to remember that the person isn't doing it on purpose. By simply lending a kind ear and being understanding, you can make the Alzheimer's patient feel as if he or she is still a valued member of society as well as the family.
As the Alzheimer's progresses and gets worse, sometimes the family caregivers feel overwhelmed, exhausted, and even angry over their fate. When things get too much to handle, getting someone else to sit with the patient, if even for a few hours, gives the caregiver some much needed relief. However, when the disease becomes severe enough, sometimes it is necessary to place the patient in a home where medical care and attention can be administered twenty-four hours a day. At this point, many Alzheimer's patients show stunning clarity and begin to feel they are being abandoned by their family. Alzheimer's patients do have moments of clarity, but don't be fooled. Alzheimer's is an insidious disease that needs prompt and sometimes ongoing care. In the early stages, medication such as Aricept, Exelon, and Zyprexa are used to relieve the symptoms of Alzheimer's, but there is currently no cure for the disease.
Just because a family member suffers from Alzheimer's does not mean that you are doomed to the same fate. Gingko Biloba, as well as the use of Vitamin E, has been shown to increase mental power and clarity. Refrain from using aluminum cookware, if at all possible. But do know that while heredity plays an important factor in all things, talking with your doctor is one of the best things you can do to ensure your own health.
Home Alarm
For most of us, from the moment we were born, our parents were there to take care of us, to comfort us, to provide us with our most basic needs. When we get older, though, that role is usually reversed, and the child becomes the caregiver of the parents. This task can be especially daunting if one or both parents suffers from Alzheimer's.
Alzheimer's disease, which has long been referred to as "Old Timer's Disease", can begin as early as middle age, which is usually regarded as the 40's and beyond. Some people feel that forgetfulness, or senility, is just a part of aging, and in some regards this is true. Our brain capacity diminishes as we get older, just as other body parts begin to slow down and/or break down over time. Our brains actually begin to shrink with age. But these factors alone do not mean Alzheimer's is something everyone will face. Some people remain lively and active and retain a majority of their mental clarity well into their 80's, 90's, and even beyond. Many things are believed to contribute to the onset of Alzheimer's--heredity, using aluminum cookware, or even just the simple process of aging. Out of all these causes, heredity seems to be the number one determining factor. If any of your grandparents suffered from the disease, chances are one or both of your parents will as well.
The onset of Alzheimer's is usually slow, progressing over a number of years. It can start with simple forgetfulness. This isn't to say that a few episodes of forgetfulness means you or your parents have Alzheimer's. Only if the forgetfulness gets progressively worse should you take appropriate steps to get an accurate diagnosis. Serious symptoms can include going for a drive and then forgetting where you're going, or even forgetting how you got to your destination, constant repetition of stories, and at its very worst, forgetting who you are or not recognizing your own family members. At this point, the Alzheimer's patient needs constant supervision, especially when it comes to medication. Taking the same meds twice or even forgetting to take meds poses serious health risks for the Alzheimer's patient. Driving privileges often need to be restricted or even taken away completely in order to protect the Alzheimer's patient. While constant repetition of stories can be aggravating for the listener, try to remember that the person isn't doing it on purpose. By simply lending a kind ear and being understanding, you can make the Alzheimer's patient feel as if he or she is still a valued member of society as well as the family.
As the Alzheimer's progresses and gets worse, sometimes the family caregivers feel overwhelmed, exhausted, and even angry over their fate. When things get too much to handle, getting someone else to sit with the patient, if even for a few hours, gives the caregiver some much needed relief. However, when the disease becomes severe enough, sometimes it is necessary to place the patient in a home where medical care and attention can be administered twenty-four hours a day. At this point, many Alzheimer's patients show stunning clarity and begin to feel they are being abandoned by their family. Alzheimer's patients do have moments of clarity, but don't be fooled. Alzheimer's is an insidious disease that needs prompt and sometimes ongoing care. In the early stages, medication such as Aricept, Exelon, and Zyprexa are used to relieve the symptoms of Alzheimer's, but there is currently no cure for the disease.
Just because a family member suffers from Alzheimer's does not mean that you are doomed to the same fate. Gingko Biloba, as well as the use of Vitamin E, has been shown to increase mental power and clarity. Refrain from using aluminum cookware, if at all possible. But do know that while heredity plays an important factor in all things, talking with your doctor is one of the best things you can do to ensure your own health.
Home Alarm
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